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Monday, April 26, 2010

Counting my blessings... 细数我的幸福。。。

I've just celebrated my 35th birthday with my wonderful family and received lots of warm greetings from friends and families on FB.
我刚和我美好的家人一起庆祝我三十五岁的生日。也在 Facebook (肥湿布?) 上收到了许多朋友和海外家人温馨的祝福。

On Friday, I received cards from both my mother-in-law and my father-in-law and his wife. How sweet of them to remember!
上个星期五我就已经收到了家婆,家翁和他太太寄来的生日卡。好高兴他们还会记得我的生日!

My day started with breakfast in bed, brought in by hubby and the kids, singing birthday song. To protect my dear readers from possible heart attack, I will not post picture of me, looking like a crazy woman, having breakfast in bed. I had also received "small" presents to start off my special day.
我的生日由早餐开始。老公和孩子们唱着生日歌,把早餐捧进来,让我在床上享用。为了我亲爱读者的心脏着想,我就不把那张"疯婆子在床上吃早餐"的照片放上来了。我也收到了一些“小”礼物,作为我特别的一天的开始。

The "G-Force" hamster is done by Angel. She also wrote a letter to me. The book on amigurumi is from hubby. I could understand the hard time he had trying to describe what he was looking for to the sales assistant, since he didn't even know the difference between knitting and crocheting! The whisk is "from" Ivan. The sweet pink purse is from Jovan and the blue heart necklace is from Angel. They used their own money from their piggy banks to buy presents for me! How sweet! But then again, we have to set a budget for them next year... they shouldn't spend too much buying presents...
那"G-Force"的仓鼠是Angel上的色。她也写了一封信给我。那本关于钩针娃娃的书是老公选的。 我能想象当他试着向店员解释他要什么时所遇到的难处,因为他连针织和钩针都分不清楚! 打蛋器是 Ivan"送"的。那可爱、粉红色的小钱包是Jovan买的,而粉蓝色的项链是Angel买的。他们俩都用各自储蓄罐的钱买礼物给我。真贴心! 不过,明年我们一定要为他们设下预算。他们不应该花太多钱买礼物。。。

Angel drew a cake for me and somehow Ivan managed to have a go at it too with pencil. So she wrote on the side,"Ivan drew on the paper. Happy Birthday mom. I love you mom very very much."
Angel画了一个蛋糕给我,但不知什么时候Ivan也在同样的纸上"发挥"了一些创意。所以她特别在旁边注明,"Ivan画在纸上。生日快乐妈咪。妈我很爱、很爱你。"

I also received a card from all of them which is written by Angel,"Happy Birthday mom. Lots of hugs from Angel, Ivan, Chris, Jovan and Hubby."
他们也送上一张由Angel负责写的卡片。上面写着,"妈生日快乐。附上许多的拥抱,Angel, Ivan, Chris, Jovan 和老公"

My family back home also sent me a Precious Moments (my favorite!)card and hairclips. Thanks for remembering! Although I don't say it often enough, I love you all so much!
远在新加坡的家人也寄了张我最喜欢的Precious Moments生日卡,和发夹。谢谢你们记得我的生日! 虽然我不常说,不过我真的好爱你们哦!

After breakfast, Jovan and Angel went out to play with their friends. Chris fell asleep, Ivan was sitting having his full attention on the tv, watching "Mickey Mouse Clubhouse" and hubby went out to "swing by" a place for awhile... So I had a moment of real calm and quiet, checking my emails, reading the birthday wishes sent to me on FB and replying to my friends. That was really nice!
吃了早餐后,Jovan 和 Angel出去和朋友玩。 Chris睡着了, Ivan全神贯注地看电视上正在播的“米老鼠俱乐部”。而老公说他必须去一个地方一下。。。 所以我有机会享有一下子的平静和安宁,上网查电邮、上“肥湿布”读朋友们写上的祝福和回复信息,感觉还真不错叻!

After lunch, hubby suggested that we finish with the "giving of presents", instead of waiting till after dinner and after having cake, which usually ends too late. So another round of presents!
午餐后,老公提议把礼物都发完。我们通常都等到晚餐后,才切蛋糕和送上其余的礼物,这么一下来时间都很迟了。所以我又有礼物收了!

I have been complaining for the longest time that my cooking pan is spoiled. It used to be non-sticking but nowadays, everything gets stuck in it! So hubby and kiddos gave me 2 bigger, non-stick cooking pans to compensate me. Goodbye scrambled egg omelette! Jovan made me a drawing of the car which has "Best mom" on the hood.
我为了烹饪锅坏了抱怨了很久。当初它还是个不沾底的好锅,如今它堕落成个不止什么都沾,还容易烧焦的烂锅! 因此老公和孩子们送了两个比较大,不沾底的新锅作为补偿。再见了,稀巴烂的煎蛋! Jovan 画了一辆车,引擎盖上还写上了“最好的妈妈”。

Hubby bought me a nice lamp which I can have it by the side of the sofa, where I always sit late at night, crocheting. So thoughtful of him!
老公送了一盏灯放在沙发旁,好让我晚上坐在那儿做钩针手工时能看得清楚。好细心哦!

Jovan bought me a mini sign which says,"Supergirl". Angel bought me a "Princess" pen and a cute bear keychain.
Jovan 买了个迷你"女超人" 牌子给我。Angel 则买了只印上了“公主”的原子笔和一个可爱的小熊钥匙圈。

The biggest present I received is always from my hubby. And this time I got a new HTC Hero mobile phone!
我最大的礼物总是老公送的。这次我收到了HTC Hero 手机!

Just have to show another picture of this beautifully designed phone. Thank you so much hubby! I love my new phone. Although you have always given me your old phone to use whenever you buy a new one, I have never complain about them because I don't need a fancy phone, just one which allows me to make/receive calls and send sms. And now, you actually bought me a new and expensive phone, I guess the "not-complaining" pays off!
没办法,这么漂亮对手机一定要再发上多一张照片。谢谢你啊,老公!我好喜欢我的新手机。 虽然每当你买新手机时,都把旧的给我用。可是我从没埋怨过因为我不需要花俏的,我只要一只能让我接收/拨打和发送简讯的手机。想不到你现在竟然买了一只又新又贵的手机给我。看来我的“不埋怨"换来了好结果!

After we were done with the presents, we went for a walk to the small pond which is near Jovan and Angel's school.
礼物都开完之后,我们散步到靠近Jovan 和 Angel 学校附近的小池塘。

We also brought some bread to feed the ducks in the ponds but the seagulls were getting more than those poor duckies!
我们也带了一些面包去喂池塘里的鸭子。不过海鸥吃得比鸭子还多,可怜的小鸭子们!

On the way home, we saw this! Some kids were trying to build a small hut between the rocks with branches!
在回家的路上,我们看到了这个! 附近的孩子们尝试用树枝在石头之间搭个小木屋!

Although the forest is still pretty bare and bald... 虽然森林还是蛮光秃的。。。

...flowers are definitely blooming now! 。。。不过野花已经开遍满地了!

I made dinner hoping to save money on take-outs. In comparision to Singapore, eating out or take-aways in Sweden are just too expensive.
为了省钱,我决定自己煮,不买外卖。在瑞典出外用餐或买外卖,和新加坡比起来实在太贵了。

I had my cake, which hubby bought while he was out driving, late at night when all the kids were already in bed. It's a pear cake which is surprisingly good and refreshing! Hubby and I had it with coffee - yum!
当孩子们都睡熟时,我们把老公出外驾驶时买的蛋糕拿出来切。他买了个梨子蛋糕。吃起来又清香又甜。我们配着咖啡吃 - 好吃!

Surrounded by all these love, I think I am fortunate!
被这么多的关爱围绕着,我想我是幸福的!

Saturday, April 24, 2010

This girl... 这个家伙。。。

Hubby brought Jovan and Angel out shopping in the afternoon. Later hubby told me that as they were passing by Linköping Uuniversity. They saw a group of youngsters out playing games and having fun. Kiddos asked hubby what they were doing and hubby replied saying that when people go to the university, they like to organize parties after exams and before the new term starts, to take some time to relax.
下午时,老公带了Jovan 和 Angel 出外买东西。他们回来之后,老公跟我说当他们经过林雪平大学时看到了一群年青人在开心地玩游戏。孩子们问老公他们在做什么。老公说上大学时,有时候学生们会在考试后和在新学期开始前,举办一些派对让他们放松心情,开心一下。

Jovan: "Have you attended any parties like this?"
Jovan: "你参加过这样的派对吗?"

Hubby: "Well, actually I used to attend this university and yes, I attended some of these parties. They are quite fun."
老公: "其实我以前读的就是这所大学,也参加过这些派对。还蛮好玩的。"

There was a moment of silence...
一片肃静。。。


Angel: "This school must be very old..."
Angel: "这间学校一定是很旧了。"

Hubby: "..."
老公: "..."


Also, as Jovan was sitting on the passenger side and Angel was sitting behind him, Angel couldn’t hear him so well.
在车上时,Jovan 坐在乘客的座位,Angel 坐在他后面的座位。所以当 Jovan 说话时,Angel 听得不是很清楚。

Angel: "Jovan, are you sleeping?"
Angel: "Jovan, 你在睡觉吗?"

Jovan: "No, I’m not sleeping."
Jovan: "没有,我没睡。"

Angel: "Huh? What?"
Angel: "什么?"

Jovan: "No, I’m not sleeping."
Jovan: "没有,我没睡。"

Angel: "What did you say?"
Angel: "你说什么?"

Jovan: "No, I’m not sleeping."
Jovan: "没有,我没睡。"

Angel: "Oh, you’re not sleeping?"
Angel: "Oh, 你没睡啊?"


Hubby asked me, "The fact that Jovan is replying her, isn’t that enough?"
老公问我," Jovan 都回答她了,还不够吗?"


Welcome to my world baby!
亲爱的,欢迎来到我的世界!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Our Princess Turns 9... 我们的公主九岁了。。。

I know I just blogged about Jovan's birthday, because I was so overdue with that! So and now I'm blogging Angel's birthday on time!
我知道我才刚写了有关Jovan的生日篇。那是因为我迟得太离谱了!所以我现在赶紧准时地发上有关Angel的生日篇!

I don't know how she got from being just 5 yesterday, to 9 today... they grow up so fast! Parents are contradicting creatures - one minute we are nagging at them that it's about time to grow up and grumbling how long it takes before they will grow up and the next minute, we're astonished at the rate they're growing . It feels like yesterday when she was still a small toddler who constantly wanted mommy to carry her, who screamed and yelled when mommy left home for work, who would sit outside the bathroom door crying for mommy when mommy was taking a shower, to this 9 year-old girl today, who is familiar with the pop songs these days, talking to her friends about boy bands/pop singers, has a strong interest in fashion and likes to paint her nails.
我还真搞不清楚,她昨天还是个五岁的娃娃,怎么今天就九岁了...。。。他们长大得太快了!做父母的都是矛盾的 - 前一分钟我们还唠叨他们该是时候长大了,抱怨着巴不得他们赶快长大,可是下一分钟我们骇然地发现他们成长的速度太快了。昨天她还是个常常要妈妈抱的娃娃。当妈妈离家上班去时,她又哭又闹。当妈妈下班回家后,进厕所冲凉时,她赖在门外哭着要妈妈。今天她九岁了,是个对流行歌曲了如指掌,爱和朋友聊有关流行歌手的动向,对潮流有着浓厚的兴趣和爱搽指甲油的女孩。

Hubby and I both woke up with headaches in the morning. Chris has caught the cold from Ivan and has been waking up crying several times during the night, so both hubby and I are seriously sleep-deprived . We woke up later than the kids and went straight for pain-killers, so Angel didn't get "Breakfast-in-bed". Sorry princess, will serve you one next year, mommy promise!
我和老公早上都因为头痛而迟起床。Chris被Ivan感染了也开始伤风咳嗽,夜里起来哭闹了几次,所以我和老公都严重缺睡眠。我们比孩子们迟起,而且一起床就找止痛药,因此Angel没能得到"在床上享用早餐"的优待。对不起啊,公主。妈咪答应你明年一定为你送上爱心早餐!



Jovan was the first one to wish Angel happy birthday by giving her a card he made. Inside it says "Congrats, congrats, congrats on (your) birthday! You are 9 years old NOW!"
Jovan是第一个祝她生日快乐的。他做了一张卡片,里面写了“祝贺、祝贺、祝贺你的生日!你现在九岁了!


He also made a drawing of the logo for the football team AC Milan for her. Angel is happy with it, she put it up on the door.
他也画了AC米兰的球队标志送给她。Angel很开心地把它贴在门上。


Farmor and Roy were able to make it today to celebrate Angel's birthday with us. And as always, they came with presents not just for the birthday girl but also for Jovan and Ivan. Angel got a scooter.
奶奶和Roy今天正好有空来和我们一起为Angel庆祝生日。向往常一样地,他们不止带了礼物给小寿星,也带了礼物给Jovan和Ivan。Angel收到了一辆滑板车。


Jovan got a watch, which is the same one as Roy has!
Jovan收到了一只手表,而且还是和Roy 一模一样的款式!


Ivan got what he likes most - anything with wheels!
Ivan对任何有轮子的东西都喜欢!


Some of the presents she got to open in the afternoon (we try to spread the presents throughout the day, so they feel that they're getting presents the whole day, which is rather nice) - crocheted koala bear keychain and penguin which she requested.
中午时她开了一部分的礼物 (我们尽量把礼物分配一下,好让他们一整天都有礼物收,可以开心一整天嘛),有针钩的树熊和她要求的企鹅。


A football.
一粒足球。

Angel requested Burger King for dinner, just like Jovan did. But I forgot to take picture because I was decorating her birthday cake at that time.
Angel跟Jovan一样点了Burger King当晚餐。不过我当时正忙着为她的蛋糕做点缀,所以忘了拍照。


A cake with Hello Kitty picture printed on sugar-paste paper. This time I sprayed it with a little water and piped (very poor piping skills...) some cream at the edge to stop it from curling up. Finally a cake decent-looking enough! The trophy candle was also from my brother.
蛋糕放上了Hello Kitty的图案。这次我喷了一点水和挤上了奶油(功夫太差了。。。)在旁边不让它有机会卷起。终于有个比较像样的蛋糕了! 蛋糕上的奖杯性的蜡烛也是老弟上次带来的。


She's 9...
都九岁了。。。


And still can't pose properly for mommy to take a nice picture!
还是不能好好地让我拍张照!


More presents!
更多的礼物!


Among them, a pair of Hello Kitty shoes...
其中有 Hello Kitty的鞋。。。


LIPS game for the Xbox from Eric...
Eric送的LIPS游戏。。。


And according to Angel, her favorite present is the purse which mommy made for her... after she unwrapped it and saw the purse, the look on her face makes everything worth it.
Angel说她最喜欢的礼物是老妈为她做的小钱包。。。当她打开看到小钱包时,她脸上的表情让我感觉到一切都是值得的。


She unzipped it and saw the label inside and gave me a big hug! I'm glad you like it princess.
她打开小钱包,看到了里面的小标签。上面写着“妈妈的爱心之作”(大概上这个意思)。她马上给了我一个拥抱! 公主,你喜欢就好。

Hubby is really dreading that Angel is growing up. If he can decide, I think he'd want her to stay small forever, even though it means that he will have to put up with her nagging about the smallest stuff and constant talking. Unfortunately, this will never happen, soon she'll be a teenager, having relationship issues, coping with stress from schoolwork, spending more time with her friends than with her family, etc., something we have all gone through when we were growing up. That's why I have been trying to prepare hubby mentally for that day to arrive by talking about what kind of boys I hope Angel will pick as her boyfriend, what kind of teenager I think she'll be, etc. Unfortunately, everytime when I talk about things like that, hubby will freak out, he'd either cover his ears and ask me to stop or look at me, dead-serious and say,"Stop saying stuff like that." The fact is, our little princess is growing up baby, so brace yourself!
老公实在不愿意Angel长大。如果他能做主的话,我想他会要她永远都这么小。就算要永远地听她为了小事而唠叨个不停,或是她叽查不停的性格,他都愿意。不幸的这是不可能的事。很快的她就会是青少年了,经历男女关系的苦恼、面对学业上的压力、跟朋友在一起的时间比家人还多,这也都是我们对成长时所经历过的。因此我试着让老公早点做好心里准备。我偶尔会谈谈希望将来Angel的男朋友会是怎么样的、她的青少年期将会是怎么样的,等等。不过每当我提起这些时,老公都会开始慌张起来。他要不就遮著耳朵,然后叫我不要在说了。要不就会很严肃地看着我说,“不要说这样的话。”." 我们的小公主将会长大, 所以亲爱的,还是振作起来面对现实吧!!

Happy Birthday Angel!
Angel 生日快乐!


Thank you for bring sunshine and laughter in our lives with your goofiness and sweetness, mommy and daddy can't tell you enough how much we love you!
谢谢你,因为你的滑稽和体贴,为我们的生活中带来了阳光和欢笑。爸爸和妈妈真的好爱、好爱你!!

Friday, April 16, 2010

My Boy is 10! 我的儿子十岁了!

I was reading my own blog last night (ok, I do that sometimes because I think some of the stuff I blog about are quite funny and they still cracks me up everytime I read about them), and realized that I didn't blog about Jovan's birthday last month. Not that I feel obligated to blog about that but turning 10 is quite a milestone and I really do want to share some of the silly stuff we do with my family and friends, who do read my blog once in awhile. 。
昨晚我当正在读我的部落时(ok, 我有时会重读我自己的部落,因为我觉得有几篇不管读了几次还是觉得很好笑),我发现我没写有关Jovan的生日篇。我不是觉得我“一定”要写,不过十岁也算是个小里程碑, 而且我也想和有空到我的部落逛逛的亲戚朋友们一起分享一些我们做的无聊事。

As the saying goes,"A picture speaks a thousand words." So let's enjoy these pictures!
有句谚语说"一画胜千言",就让我们一起"赏画"吧!


We (as a family) decided to have "Breakfast-in-bed" as one of our privileges we get when we celebrate birthdays (next privilege is to be able to choose what he or she wants for dinner). So our birthday boy woke up (well, actually he woke up really early due to excitement but daddy made him go back to bed to "pretend" that he was still sleeping so that we can do the "Breakfast-in-bed" thing...) and was enjoying breakfast prepared by mommy, daddy and Angel.
我们一家人决定把"在床上享用早餐"列为其中的一项生日的特权。(另一项生日的特权是"有决定晚餐吃什么"的权力。) 所以我们的寿星起床后 (其实他一大清早因为兴奋就起床了,老爸要他回床上假假还在睡,这样我们才能继续我们的"床上享用早餐"特权。。。),悠闲地享用老妈,老爸和为他准备的早餐。

I think he was happy!
我想他还蛮开心的!

And as a prelude to his special day, he received small gifts, a spade, Ben-10 bedsheet and a card made by Angel.
我们先给他几样小礼物当作他生日的前奏。有一把塑胶铲子, Ben-10的床单和Angel做的卡片。


The card read,"Happy Birthday to my brother. Jovan you are 10 years old. 10 years old" I know, what a milestone!
卡片上写着:"祝我哥生日快乐。Jovan你十岁了。十岁" 就是啊,又到了一个里程碑!


Farmor (Grandma) came with Roy (her partner) in the afternoon for a little tea party, bringing present for the birthday boy, even Angel and Ivan got presents!
中午时,奶奶和Roy(奶奶的伴侣)来喝下午茶,他们也带来了礼物给Jovan、Angel和Ivan。


Jovan picked Burger King for his birthday dinner, fast food is always popular with kids! And look, Ivan has learnt how to smile at the camera! Now we can look forward to many years of "weird-looking" smiles in our pictures!
晚餐Jovan点了Burger King,小孩子都爱快餐!看, Ivan学会了对着相机笑!看来以后将会的照片里有很多看来很勉强、怪怪的笑容!

After dinner, came the highlight of the day - the cutting of the birthday cake and presents!
晚餐后就是当天最期待的时候 - 切蛋糕和开礼物!


Since I totally suck at decorating cakes, I thought I'll buy a Ben-10 picture printed with edible ink on sugar-paste paper. The result is quite ok but the picture started to turn hard and was curled up on the side, I think I should spray it a little with water and pipe some cream on the side. The car-candle was from my brother who bought me a lot of figure candles when they came for visit last year. Jovan was happy with my effort.
我对点缀蛋糕真的不行,于是我买了用可食性油墨,打印在糖糊纸上的Ben-10图案。出来的效果还可以,不过时间一久,糖糊纸就开始变硬,旁边也开始卷起。我想我应该喷上一点水和在旁边挤上奶油花。蛋糕上车性的蜡烛是我弟弟去年来的时候带来的。他还带了其他不同形状的蜡烛。对我付出的努力Jovan还挺开心的。


Beaming birthday boy!
笑容满面的寿星!


Ivan LOVES cars, so you can see where his eyes are glued to...
车子是Ivan的最爱,你看得出他的目光锁在那里。。。


Everybody knows how difficult it is to get nice pictures of children, especially when you have more than 1 in a picture. I think Angel had enough picture-taking for the day...
大家都知道要为小孩子拍好照片是很困难的事,尤其是当你有多过一个小孩在同一张照片时。Angel看起来好像拍够了。。。


Time for presents! It is obviously who was the one posing, the other 2 were just a blur...
礼物时间到了! 很明显地看得出谁在摆姿势,其他两个只是一片模糊。。。

"It's a bucket!" Sometimes they wish for the strangest thing... Ivan couldn't understand why his big brother got so happy with a bucket...
"是个桶!"有时他们想要的东西还真奇怪。。。 Ivan不明白为什么他的大哥为了一个桶会这么高兴。。。


He also wished for a pair of swimming goggles and apparently, Ivan thought that Jovan should complete the look with the bucket...
他也想要一副游泳护目镜。显然的 Ivan认为配上个桶会让画面更加完美。。。


He also received a "Present Voucher" which entitled him to play games the whole day. It was a real treat since they are only allowed to play for one hour if they're on time getting themselves ready for school in the mornings or if they have done something really good (like helping with housework without being asked to).
他还收到了一张能让他玩上一整天游戏机的礼券。这对他来说真的士一项很好的礼物。平时他们只能在准备上学时要准时或做了好事(比如自动自发的做家务)时,才能玩一个小时。

Some people think that we're a little too strict with our kids, because they have to help with chores at home, help to look after the smaller siblings, be responsible for their own time and their own properties, they have restricted time in playing the XBox and watch tv and they're only allowed to watch tv programs, video, listen to CDs and play XBox games which mommy and daddy say it's ok. However, our kids are not suffering at all, they're happy, they show appreciation for things they receive or kind things others do for them, they feel safe and secure. Discipline and character building are difficult and stressful and they play a huge part in parenting. Sadly a lot of parents choose to avoid them as much as they can - indulgence does not equal love. All parents have their own way of parenting, we try to find ways that will work for our children since they are all different. Hubby and I don't really care how others think about us as parents, we just want to do the best job that we can for our kids.
有些人认为我们对孩子们有一点太严厉了。他们不止要帮忙做家务、帮忙照顾弟妹、为自己的东西负责,还要掌管自己的时间。他们有限制的时间玩游戏机和看电视。他们看的电视节目、玩的XBox游戏和听的CD都要经过爸妈的批准和同意。不过,我们并不觉得孩子们受苦了。相反的,他们很快乐也感到很安全。他们对收到的礼物或善意的举动都会知道感谢。他们对所拥有的从不认为是理所当然的。训导和人格建设在教育孩子上扮演着重大的角色。但是很遗憾的,有些父母对此却距而远之 -放纵并不等于爱。每个身为父母的都有自己的教育方式。我们大家都不断地找适合自己孩子的教育方式,毕竟每个孩子都不一样。我和老公都不在意别人怎么看我们。我们俩只是很尽力地为了孩子们把本分做好。

Jovan is a very good kid. He is responsible, considerate, sensitive to others' feelings, loves his younger siblings and is protective over them (he'll tell his friends off if they're mean to Angel). He is never afraid to try anything that is new (especially food!) and has an inquisitive mind, he wants to know how things works and try to figure things out by himself first before approaching his "Bible" to everything - daddy. He also tries to do his best in most of the things that he does, school or play. Nobody is perfect and of course, he has some annoying habits which we hope he'll change or improve on, like teasing and fighting with Angel over small issues (somehow he's a little more impatient with Angel, maybe it's the close age gap)and his forgetfulness. Now that he's a "pre-teen", he is starting to test his boundaries more and talking back (and only with me, he doesn't do any of this with daddy...). New phases bring new issues and need new ways of handling these issues. Parenting is a big and continuous project.
Jovan是个好孩子。他有责任感、会为别人着想、会在意别人的感受,也爱护他的弟妹 (当他的朋友对Angel无礼时,他会毫不客气地喝止)。他很勇于尝试新事物 (尤其是食物!。他也有强烈的求知欲,他总是想搞清楚东西的运作。他通常会尝试自己发觉,行不通时就会问他的“万事通”老爸。当然世上没有十全十美的人,Jovan有些令人受不了的坏习惯,象没记性、常为了小事而跟Angel吵架、斗嘴(他对Angel似乎比较没耐心,可能是因为年龄相近的关系吧)等。他现在已经开始步入青少年期,开始试探我耐心的极限,顶嘴的次数也增加了(而且他只对我这么做,他从不如此对老爸。。。)。新阶段带来新挑战,当然也需要新的应付方式。教育孩子是一项持续不断的大工程。.

Hubby and I are both really happy with how Jovan is now and is hoping that he'll continue to grow to be person who has a lot to contribute.
我和老公对Jovan感到很欣慰,我们也希望他能继续成长当个有贡献的人。.

Happy Birthday Jovan! Mommy and daddy are looking forward to celebrating more ten's years with you!
Jovan生日快乐! 爸爸和妈妈期待着和你一起庆祝以后更多的“十”年!

Monday, April 12, 2010

Strolling... 散步...

Hubby and I went for a stroll with the smaller ones in our neighborhood yesterday, while the bigger ones were out playing. The weather was promising for spring. The sun was shinning and birds were chirping. The air was still cold and it was a little chilly when the wind blew but boy, were we glad that winter was finally over!
昨天我和老公带着两个小的到家附近散步。两个大的在楼下玩。艳阳高照,小鸟在树上吱吱叫,看来离春天不远了。虽然空气还是有点冷,起风时还有点刺骨,不过我们还是很开心寒冷的冬天终于过了!


Chris didn't look so enthusiastic about the walk though, but it was good for him to be out and get some fresh air and sunshine.
Chris好象对散步并不怎么感兴趣,不过出来走走呼吸新鲜的空气和晒晒太阳对他还是好的。


It was a nice day for horse riding. There is a track for horse riding through the forest on the other side of the road from our apartment.
昨天也是个骑马的好天气。在我们家对面的马路旁有条贯穿森林的骑马小径。


Ivan's little legs got tired and he got help from daddy to continue the walk. Sometimes I wish I'm this small too!
Ivan的小腿走累了还有爸爸抱着他继续走。有时我也好想象他这么小!

We stopped by the playground for awhile...
我们在游乐场停了一下。。。

Ivan fell and for some reason, couldn't get up and needed daddy to rescue him.
Ivan跌倒了,不知道为什么就是爬不起来,还好有爸爸助他一臂之力。
Ivan was really happy to get out of the apartment.
Ivan真的很高兴能出来透透气。
"Look mommy,STICKS!" H was collecting sticks, branches, stones and leaves along the way...
"妈咪,看树枝!" 他一路上收集了不少树枝,石头和树叶。。。

We ventured into the forest to have a look-see and Ivan found the record-breaking branch for the day...
我们走进森林看看, Ivan找到了一枝特长的树枝。。。

which he refused to put down...
说到我们口水都干了也不愿放下。。。


There are still piles of dirty snow mixed with gravel, here and there.
虽然到处还看到一堆堆加了碎石的脏雪。。。


But when you see kids running around in just sweaters...
不过当你看到只穿着毛绒衣到处跑的孩子。。。

and flowers peaking out from the muddy ground...
和从泥地里冒出的野花时。。。

You can be certain that spring is here!
你可以确定,春天到了!